It is essential that all caregivers be very familiar with IPT. It's the mother's job to teach them and make certain that they hold baby in a comfortable and relaxing position and also that they clearly understand that no impatience, pressure, punishment or anger is to be involved.
In some families, the father is the principal caregiver and handles the toileting. In this situation, the same applies-others may help as long as baby and Dad agree.
There are some little ones who prefer for Mom to be the only one who potties them. They will let you know!
Here are some tips and pointers to consider:
- Some babies may take a little time to adjust to a new person holding them. In this situation, the introduction of a new person can be gradual, perhaps taking a number of days or weeks until a bond and trust are established. Since baby and caregiver must both be relaxed, it would be counterproductive to subject baby to any form of discomfort or stress.
- If siblings want to help, it's a good idea to monitor them on a number of occasions until you are certain they are able to do everything properly. Smaller children can be of assistance in a number of "little helper" ways such as encouraging or entertaining baby at potty time. Older siblings can assist with the actual potty process once they have had some experience and trial runs in your presence. Some siblings are able to read baby's signals better than adults. Don't underestimate the abilities of siblings to work with infant brothers or sisters!
- Fathers and other close relatives and friends can assist by providing both moral and functional support. Encouragement, inspiration and help from loved ones is tremendously important, especially since it is not unusual to meet with resistance from many who are not familiar with IPT. Assistance with pottying at times throughout the day or night (especially on the part of fathers) can make a big difference in the progress and outcome of IPT. Online support is also available!
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