La Llorona, The Weeping Woman


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La Llorona is believed to be the ghostly apparition of a once beautiful woman who gave up her children for the love of a handsome man. She is always seen near the edge of a river or a lake, and has been spotted in many states including, California, New Mexico, Montana, and Texas. Sobbing loudly, the pitiful La Llorona calls to her long lost children as she searches for them in vain.

There are many variations to the legend of Lloronna, the weeping woman. In one she is a peasant girl who dares to fall in love with the son of a wealthy landowner. When his betrothal to another is announced, she kills her children in anger. In another, La Llorona is a young wife who murders her children in retaliation of her husband's illicit affairs.

One common thread runs through all the legends. La Llorona always kills her children. A favored story goes that her lover selfishly gave La Llorona an ultimatum; either she give up her young children or she give him up. Blinded by love, the foolish young woman made a fateful decision that would haunt her into eternity. She drowned her children so that she could keep the love of her man.

Freed from the responsibilities of motherhood, she enjoyed one adventure after another with her handsome lover. For a time the two of them lived a happy carefree life. Then one day she saw a young mother and her children laughing happily in the marketplace and the horror of what she had done to her own children came rushing back to her.

La Llorona became withdrawn and sullen. The laughter that once surrounded her little cottage was replaced by deed sorrowful sobs. Her long lustrous hair, greatly admired by all, turned dull and stringy. Filled with guilt and remorse, she slowly lost her beauty. Little by little her mind became unhinged. Late at night, she began wandering along the water's edge calling for her children.

One evening the handsome man walked out of the cottage, never to return. When she finally realized that her unfaithful lover had ran away with another woman, La Llorona decided to put an end to her suffering.

In a pitiful attempt to atone for the murders of her offspring, she poisoned herself and died an agonizing death. But, there would be no resting in peace for La Llorona. Shortly after her burial in a pauper's cemetery, people started to see her ghost walking forlornly along the banks of the river, wailing loudly.

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4.   Oct 31, 2001 7:46 AM
Interesting. I'd never heard of her being seen outside of Mexico--very intriguing that she's traversed a wider area!! :)

Incidentally, one of the readings I will do in my Samhain ritual tonight in ...


-- posted by Dantessa


3.   Oct 30, 2001 7:18 AM
In response to message posted by deadbarbie:
Everyone has their take on this story. Thanks for sharing yours. Janice ...

-- posted by obeecat


2.   Oct 30, 2001 3:51 AM
Come on you can write about la Llorona and not mention its tie to Mexican culture. I have no doubt that there may be sitings in the U.S, but those states are all linked to Mexico.
Every Mexican ...

-- posted by deadbarbie


1.   Nov 24, 1999 11:30 AM
When I read this, I was immediately reminded of the Irish Celtic Banshee (Bean Sidhe). The weeping, the water near her, the red eyes... amazing parallels! Great story, but of course so very t ...

-- posted by eibhlin





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