That's So Gay! - Page 2

More significantly, expressions such as “That’s so gay!” help perpetuate a culture of anti-gay/lesbian/ bisexual/transgendered (glbt) violence. According to the department of justice, gay and lesbian people are the most likely group to be targeted for a hate crime. When people who are presumed to be gay or lesbian (and note that this includes heterosexual people, bisexual people, and transgendered people as well as gay and lesbian people) are targeted, they are more likely to be beaten beyond recognition than persons targeted for their racial, ethnic or socioeconomic group. The gay-basher’s weapon of choice is a baseball bat or similar implement. It’s as if the attackers want to beat the humanity out of their victim. When murderers shoot or stab people that they presume to be gay or lesbian, it’s not just once or twice, it’s seven, ten, twelve times, as if the goal is to totally eradicate the person rather than to simply kill him or her. And in case you are in denial about what hate crimes are really about, think about Matthew Shepard, left to die on a fence post in Wyoming, or James Byrd (who, although he wasn’t gay, was killed because he was black) who was dragged to death from a pickup truck in Texas.

Hate violence is not just targeted at adults. The Massachusetts version of the Center for Disease Control’s Youth Risk Behavior Youth survey (the only state to include sexual orientation in the questionnaire) indicates that gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgenedered youth are targeted with a great deal of harassment and violence at school. According to Massachusetts survey results, high school students who self-identified as gay, lesbian or bisexual were seven times more likely than other students to have skipped school because they felt unsafe. Data from different surveys in other states support Massachusetts’ findings.

Being on the target end of this harassment is horrible. It’s not uncommon for students who are perceived to be gay or lesbian to be subjected to little and big acts of humiliation, to have “fag” or “dyke” written on their locker, to be “accidentally” pushed as they walk through the hall, to have their property vandalized, etc. One student in a self-defense class I taught, was “not allowed” to go into the bathroom at school if anyone else was in there. Another student was sexually assaulted because her perpetrator thought she was a lesbian. Given the hell that children perceived to be gay or lesbian go through, it’s no wonder so many glbt or glbt questioning youth kill themselves. It also makes sense that authorities uncovered information indicating that the boy who shot 5 of his teachers and classmates in a school near San Diego had been subjected to anti-gay harassment. To me, the surprise is that such rampages don’t happen more often.

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