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New Year's Resolutions


© Cynthia Webber (Jausten)

Making a New Year's resolution in order to improve the quality of our lives isn't a bad thing, but how many of us have made New Year's resolutions in the past, only to feel like a failure when we don't keep them? We can resolve to improve our nutrition, amount of exercise and relaxation, and do many things that will aid in our current quality of life as we deal with our fibromyalgia on a daily basis. However, we are setting ourselves up for failure and guilt if we try to make too many changes at one time.

Making resolutions that are completely unrealistic such as totally changing our diet overnight, trying to exercise beyond our physical limitations, or even signing up for a course in relaxation or self-improvement can become a source of frustration for us when we find that we can't totally commit ourselves to such major changes in our lives. Sudden stressful situations may lead us back to poor eating habits, stop us from even doing mild exercise, and may make us feel like giving up with trying to do anything that may improve our symptoms.

Even if we only decide to make one change in our lives, we can feel guilty when we slip and fail to follow through with even one resolution. The important thing to remember is that if we choose to change one aspect of our lives in order to make our fibromyalgia easier to live with, we still don't have to be perfect. We can have a day, or even a week of eating poorly, not exercising, or even taking time to just relax, but we can return to our resolution when we feel that we are ready. Nothing is written in stone about resolutions, and just because we've forgotten or gave in to a sudden bad habit doesn't mean that we are failures. Each day is a new one, and in fact, our day can be started over anytime within the twenty-four hour period of time.

A simplier way in which to view New Year's resolutions is to make gradual changes. We can choose to switch from drinking beverages that aren't healthy for us, but still have the occasional unhealthy beverage without just giving up and saying that it isn't working for us. We can keep nutritious foods in our homes, but if we get a sudden craving for something sweet, it isn't the end of the world.

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8.   Jan 8, 1999 2:59 PM
I've thought about resolutions all this week as well. I have decided to be a strong avocacate for myself, get off my duff and fight for what I believe is right related to my FM. This includes doctors ...

-- posted by ______MarcellaGM


7.   Jan 7, 1999 6:48 AM
I have been thinking about this for the last week. Now I know where I want to go with 1999. I have never been good at taking care of myself, in fact I would probably have made myself worse by not car ...

-- posted by NancyD_10


6.   Jan 1, 1999 10:40 PM
Well, it is January 1st, and I've made no resolutions. I do have plans to change a few things that I do, but I'm going to do things slowly. Thanks everyone for your input.

Cynthia ...


-- posted by Jausten


5.   Jan 1, 1999 7:52 PM
Dear Cynthia...Thank you for this fine article.
This article contains excellent inormation for
selecting and putting changes into action; and,
successfully implementing changes. Actually, changes c ...

-- posted by donpat


4.   Jan 1, 1999 2:43 PM
I usually go to yoga every Saturday morning, but with the recents holidays, I've kind of put it low on my priority list. Starting tomorrow I'll be going more regularly, though, because I can definate ...

-- posted by rainyday





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