Here’s to you, new Dad

With Father's Day just around the corner, there's no better time to take stock of your accomplishments. Either you're already a new father, or you're about to become one. Congratulations! You deserve a day of recognition, if not a medal.

Being a new dad is no easy task. There's a lot at stake, and you're probably feeling the pressure. So take full advantage of your special day. You've earned it. Worry about paying the bills, changing diapers, getting your child into the best schools, and teaching him or her to be an Olympic athlete on the other 364 days of the year. On Sunday, June 18, take a break. Relax. Enjoy.

If that means blowing off some steam goofing with some guy friends, go for it. Just because it's Father's Day don't be shamed into spending the entire day with family. Unless, of course, that's what makes you happiest. For some new parents, a little time away from the house, the newborn and the in-laws is just what the doctor ordered.

Take in a movie. (I recommend a quintessential guy movie, like "Gladiator", or "Shanghai Noon"). Get out and play some ball, take a run, play some golf, or drink a few brews and watch TV, if that's what relaxes you. As I've said; you've earned it. As a new father there's plenty of pressure on you the other 364 days a year. From winning the bread to maintaining the lawn and car, you've got more responsibilities now than ever before. What better chance to do what YOU want to do, if not on YOUR special day.

And remember; if your children are old enough to bring home handmade (or even store-bought) gifts, pretend to love them no matter how ugly or useless. After all, it's the thought that counts.

Dads are pretty terrific guys. Don't let them forget it. And don't you forget it.

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