Who controls your future?

Grief? Have you lost someone very near to you due to death? This is, perhaps, the hardest thing to overcome in our lives. This issue can not be resolved or repaired. The person you cared about is gone, forever. How will you handle this, and move forward with your life? How can you continue living when the person you love is no longer in this world? You will, you can, and you must. Would the person you have lost want you to die with them? Look at it honestly, think about what that person wanted from you and for you. Would they want you to hurt, forever? To hurt yourself and your future because you have lost someone to death. This is not going to help and it will not, sadly, bring the person back to life. Killing yourself or losing yourself in grief will not stop the death. It will not reverse the process, nor change the past.

Can you recover? Yes! It will be tough, and take time, but you can. How? Keep the memory alive. Yes, that’s right, keep the memory of that person alive in your spirit and live for them. Make your life and theirs, have meaning. I am fortunate in that I know several wonderful people who have devoted their future to making their loved one’s past known. This is constructive, and a healthy way to deal with your loss. Closing yourself off and ending your own life is not healthy.

Let love, hope, and your dreams lead you. Your future is out there, and it’s waiting for you!

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