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Closet of Shame


© Betty O. Spangle

My life has been a continual battle with weight. I gain, I lose, I eat, I cry, I diet, I buy clothes.

As a result, I have clothes in my closet that range in sizes from an 8 to a 30. Pretty extreme, right?

My life on this rollercoaster started at 16. I began the journey which has lead me to today.

Women, especially, deal with a society that gives us conflicting messages. "Aren't you hungry?" and magazine covers with women who weigh less than I did when I was ten years old.

I have three sons, and no daughters, yet, if I had a daughter I would tell her to stay off of the rollercoaster. To learn to value what she has to say more than how she looks. For in this simple truth, is the answer.

Most people who begin to diet are not that overweight. If these individuals would cut a cookie here, walk a little there, the problem is really no problem. It's us, as a society, who creates the problem. We convince each other, and our selves that we should be just a little thinner. So we diet, we lose. We gain more. We diet, we lose, we gain more. We are suddenly no longer a little heavy, we are obese. And the cycle continues.

Stop dieting, start being active in your life today. Don't wait for that magic dress size, or number on a scale. Be who you want, now. Because if you never weigh 115 pounds, you will never have lived. How crazy of an idea is that?

Good luck. I hope somewhere, someone hears this message, and throws all their "dietary aids" away.

Walk, live, make choices, and believe in yourself and your higher power.

You are special. Today. As you are.

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5.   Jul 11, 2000 6:34 PM
I am very glad to be here, and appreciate your comments and encouragement. Good luck to you, as well.
Betty

-- posted by Betty68


4.   Jul 11, 2000 5:35 PM
Encouragement. Baby boomers reach a certain age and then have a time with weight. It's great you are addressing this issue.

Welcome to the Suite!

Jerri ...


-- posted by jerrib


3.   Jul 9, 2000 2:17 PM
Hi Betty - I am the ME of Women's Health! What a great article and a breath of fresh air! I am pregnant with my first child -- and regardless if I have a daughter or a son -- the message from me wil ...

-- posted by marnad1963


2.   Jul 9, 2000 11:56 AM
Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it! I think women are too concerned with how they look, and that we, as a group, should be respected and valued for what we have to say, and what we have to offe ...

-- posted by Betty68


1.   Jul 9, 2000 12:03 AM
What a beautiful, encouraging article! I have a daughter who is four, and I try really, really hard not to call myself "fat" or to obsess about my weight around her. She is the perfect weight right ...

-- posted by mykidzmom





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