It's Potty Time
Your child is not yet two, but the potty is now another childhood phase. Is my child ready for the bathroom? What are some of the signs I should be looking for? What can I do to make this a positive experience? Are there methods more effective than others?
No two children are alike. Some will be ready at 18 months of age, and others aren't ready till they are three or more. Are boys slower than girls? That seems to be the popular myth and some studies suggest this, but each child is unique. Whatever the age of your child, there will be different signs to show his/her readiness.
Toddlers are just learning about their worlds and their bodies especially learning how to control their bladder and bowel movements. Your child might show signs of readiness by being curious, asking about the toilet, the potty, or underwear. They might be more verbal and tell you when they "go" or that they have to "go". Your child's diaper may stay dry for a few consecutive hours. They can also express discomfort if they do soil their diaper. Your child might be able to listen, understand and execute things that you ask of them.
There are no magic formulas when teaching your child to use the toilet. There isn't one method better than the other. If your child attends daycare, it's important that both the educator and yourself work in the same manner. You won't be able to do it alone and neither will the daycare. Your child will appreciate the supportive team--it's a joint affair.
There are differences between the potty, the potty seat and the toilet. The potty method is preferred by many parents. It's portable, and it's the right size for little ones. The down side is that it needs to be cleaned after every use. It can be good for teaching children about cleanliness and personal hygiene.
Some parents prefer to skip the potty stage. There are potty seats that can be attached to the toilet or you may choose to go straight on the toilet. The toilet is available with running water, and less chances of accidents and spills. To alleviate fear, you can show your child to sit facing towards the wall. Your child will be able to get on and off with more security.
Parents often ask should they use underwear or pull-ups? Accident are inevitable no matter which method you choose. Underwear will require parents to do more laundry and pull-ups are a costly option, but both will be a challenge when the child has a loose stool. It's really a question of personal choice. Whether your choice is one or the other, dress your child accordingly. Leave your child in underwear or pulls-up and loose pants. Tights, long and fluffy skirts or pants with zippers, belt, buttons, or suspenders, might only frustrate a child who's trying so hard to be grown-up.
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