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Just How Much is Too Much?? Your point of view.

© Marie-Helen Goyetche

Thank you for your letters. I have received a few e-mails ranging with different opinions on both scenarios presented. Most wanted to remain anonymous therefore I'll just let you know what some of you have answered.

Some did like the idea of having to sit down and think, "Am I answering the 'right' answers to the children in my daycare group?"

"Are there any "right' answers?"

"I never really thought about it that way."

"I understand these children look up to me for many answers but when they start talking about God and going to Church, I like to stay out of it. I purposely redirect the conversation."

"I agree with both educators presented as I believe as educators we are there to teach and to open up the world to the children. I don't judge any scenario but I can let them know and share what is done at home. I believe that it is important to talk to children, even about the stereotypes"

"I like to talk to children about new and different ways especially different celebrations we (my family is Jewish) have, but I also like to point out other celebrations that we don't celebrate. It's like showing them two sides of the coin."

"Children will take everything, they'll believe anything adults will tell them. It's our responsibility to work with the parents and to avoid talking about values, morals that are unique to each individual. That belongs to the parents and it's ok to tell the children - I prefer you discuss that with your mother/father."

"I don't want to share my personal life with the children. What I believe and how I live my life is my business and my business only."

"I think it really depends on what subject. Some will be of little importance as others will be very important. Just as in dealing with adults - politics, religion and sex should be discussed at home and not in the daycare group."

"I want my children to learn at school and be able to come back to me and see what I think of the subject. Then we can exchange and share ideas, I don't want to impose how my daughter will think. Sometimes I don't know the answers."

Thank you for your wonderful comments. I strongly believe we have to be cautious for what and how we answer to our children's questions. We can always take a second or two before we answer to give explanations that are developmentally and age appropriate and parent approved.

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