Children and Pets: That Special Bond
For as long as I can remember there have always been pets in my house. Growing up, my parents always had at least three cats as part of our family. My father, forever the dog lover, was hardly ever seen without his faithful companion by his side as he raked the yard or cut the grass. I grew up watching them take responsibility for these creatures and without realizing it, accepting these pets as members of my family, much like a sister or a brother. When one died, I would mourn the loss by writing a poem or setting up a memorial in my backyard, complete with pictures and flowers.
I'm grateful that my parents were pet lovers because I believe they gave me the gift of compassion; the ability to care and respect all living things. As a result, I am now, hopefully, givoing this same gift to my own two children. The relationship between children and their pets is a complex one. Most of the time it is a positive and rewarding experience, however sometimes it can be filled with unrealistic expectations and disappointing outcomes. Every situation is different, but there are some things parents can do to make the most out of this special relationship.
If you are considering acquiring a companion animal for your child, the first thing to do is make sure you select one that is appropriate for the age, maturity level and personality of the child, as well as the living arrangements. Of course, most parents would agree that a full-grown Great Dane would be inappropriate for a three-year-old living in an apartment, however for those parents who are nfamiliar with caring for a pet, it is easy to become confused.
For example, parents may believe that a hamster is the right pet for their three-year-old child. However, in truth, it may actually be the opposite. Hamsters are delicate, skittish and very squirmy when touched. They require clean water, a balanced diet and a clean cage, or they may contract an illness called "wet tail," which results on dehydration and death if not treated. A hamster's life span is roughly two years and because they are not the type of animal which likes to be held, many youngsters quickly lose interest in them.
Most likely parents will accept the majority of the esponsibility of caring for a pet, at least until their children are in their adolescent years, so they should first consider their own requirements and restrictions. If they have been responsible pet owners in the past, this will make the selection process easier. However, a first time pet owner should gather as much information as possible before making a final decision.
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