92. Holiday Humbug
A friend and I were talking, before Thanksgiving, about dreading this time of year. He mentioned the higher incidences of seasonal suicides, the added pressures of not being in a relationship, and increased stress levels for those that are. Newspapers, magazines, radio/television programs are addressing "how to deal with less than pleasant family gatherings," and of course let's not forget to mention the ultra-crass commercialism of the retail marketplace. It seems that children are the only gleeful ones, particularly the ones who still believe in Santa Claus. (By the way, Polar Express was not all that terrible! Except for the animation I rather appreciated the message.)
I've addressed this topic before, and sad to say, the mood never seems to improve. If anything, the "humbug" affliction is worse simply because of world- weary situations. HELLO??? Is there anyone out there who can truly say they feel joyful and eager about the holidays? If there is, then please do not try to be extra cheerful around those of us who would rather ignore you. And, by the way, what planet are you from?
Even during my so-called "happy days," when my sons were small and I enjoyed the process of decorating, I have to say that there was way too much nonsense with which to deal. ALL the shopping, ALL the cooking, ALL the Christmas card business, ALL the invitations and RSVPs, ALL the ... well, you get the idea. All women know what I'm talking about I'm sure, and age has nothing to do with it.
This year I'm suggesting we each try something revolutionary, IF you haven't done so all ready. 1. Get out that Christmas card list and toss it! Send ONLY to those who truly matter in your life. 2. Make a secondary, early send out list of Christmas cards to those with whom you no longer wish to exchange gifts... or make personal calls if it feels more comfortable. 3. Simplify, cut down, cut back, cutout, reduce whatever, whenever, wherever possible. In other words, do whatever it takes to make life easier on yourself.
STOP all the empty traditional tasks just because of obligatory habits. Trust me, your friends and family members will breathe a deep sigh of relief and "Thank YOU" for being the one to make the suggestion first. You won't be branded a social outcast, nor will anyone judge you as some horrible person. Really, what's the worst anyone can say? More than likely they feel exactly the same way that you do.
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